I have trans in my bio because I only want to interact with an exclusively trans-positive community (which is also why I block/filter so heavily here). In reality I hardly ever talk about being trans. I'm only openly trans in meatspace when I'm in a pride parade. Cis people have tried to politely ask if I'm trans and I shut them down 🤷♀️ I don't care if it's obvious to them; it's not their right to ask and I make it clear that it's not something I'm okay with discussing ✌️
re: personal trans label +
I'm pretty sure cis people have asked because they heard rumours from someone who knew me in high school or something, but I'm also okay with the alternatives. As long as cis people know they're not allowed to ask me about it, ever :P Gender is not something I enjoy talking about